Traditions by Kurt Olson
“Traditions are the guideposts driven deep in our subconscious minds. The most powerful ones are those we can’t even describe or are even aware of.” Ellen Goodman
If you attended our “Handling the Holidays” session, we talked about examining your past
traditions and explored making a new tradition for you and/or your family.
Noted author Ellen Goodman points out that traditions are hard to put words to
and sometimes we are not even aware of them. Traditions touch your very core, your
soul, and are sometimes very elusive. Take some time to think about the tools
we gave you to better manage your holidays. Then you will have the tough job of
implementing them.
My thoughts ranged all over the map when I
was trying to make a plan for my family’s new tradition. I came up with a
couple of questions that helped me define what I was after, and maybe they will
be helpful to you too. Then I’ve listed
a couple of other things you might find comforting.- What are the one or two things you would like to do this holiday that you did in the past with the loved you lost?
- If you
could honor your loved one in some way, what would you do?
- Take out
your Bible and see who God says you are.
- Take time for you.
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